‘Bachelor’ spoilers: Who is the next ‘Bachelorette’ 2014?

“Bachelor” spoilers have been all over the internet greatly in part to Reality Steve who loves to give fans the 411 long before the season ends. One of the spoilers involves the next “Bachelorette” and on Feb. 24, Hollywood Life reported who that is rumored to be. Apparently Andi Dorfman will take the helm — she and Juan Pablo will not end up together (in case you didn’t read the finale spoilers).

The selection of Andi has a lot of fans in an uproar — while a lot of people liked her on “The Bachelor,” most don’t see her as “The Bachelorette” and were really hoping for some “fresh meat” so to speak.

“Bachelor” spoilers revealed who Juan Pablo chooses at the end of this season but also what will happen moving forward with the popular ABC franchise. Andi Dorfman will begin filming her season on March 11 or 12. According to the report, the “official” announcement will air on “After the Final Rose,” which isn’t anything new. And the fact that the news was spoiled? Also nothing new.

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From memoirs to self-help guides, learn about anorexia and bulimia resources

An estimated 10 million women and one million men in the United States suffer from an eating disorder, according to the Eating Disorder Foundation. If you’re seeking help for yourself or someone you care about, talk with an expert.

In addition, we recommend the following books and DVDs:

  • “Letting Ana Go” tells the story of a girl who seems to have it all. But as she struggles with meeting expectations, she turns to controlling food as a way to take charge of her life. Weight loss comes to mean success, all documented in a moving diary that reveals the toll and tragedy of eating disorders. Learn more about “Letting Ana Go”
  • “Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia (P.S.)” is a fascinating memoir by best-selling author Marya Hornbacher. In it, she reveals how she first fight to lose weight – and then battled to recover. It’s a stark, insightful journey through the looking glass of eating disorders. Learn more about “Wasted: A Memoir”
  • What happens when a woman specializing in documentaries and photography explores life within an eating disorders treatment facility? The answer is “Thin,” an exploration into the lives of brave girls and women who revealed their stories in hopes of helping others. Included with their personal stories are essays on the sociology and science of eating disorders by renowned researchers Joan Jacobs Brumberg, Dr. David Herzog, and Dr. Michael Strober. Learn more about “Thin” by clicking here. Also recommended: HBO’s original documentary showcasing those patients: Get the details on the DVD
  • “You can never be too rich or too thin” has become a familiar saying. But Susan Sarandon proves why the “too thin” element can be deadly in the documentary “Dying to Be Thin”
  • Discover how to know if a “problem” might be an eating disorder by clicking here for “Almost Anorexic: Is My (or My Loved One’s) Relationship with Food a Problem? (The Almost Effect).”
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Becoming a True Globe Trotter

Visit any library and you will find all kinds of books that describe the adventurous lifestyles of early globe trotters and travelers. These are people who explored the world long before the days of easy transportation, wireless communication, or even convenient methods of carrying food or water. From Darwin in the Galapagos to Stevenson in the South Pacific, you can find stories of people leading amazing lives and actually earning a living while doing it.

Naturally, you might shrug and believe that there is no possible way to copy them in any way. You cannot give up the “day job” with its retirement package, paid vacations, and annual increases to the salary… right?

In all actuality, if you truly want to become a globe trotter in the same ways that so many others have done, it is entirely possible. You don’t even have to be a great writer like Mark Twain or a fearless explorer like Captain Scott (navigator of the South Pole in 1912). You can be a photographer, teacher of ESL, fitness expert, copy writer, designer, trained executive, financial professional, aid or health worker, pilot, and so much more. (The Telegraph, 2014)

No Boundaries

There are two key things to realize in order to open the door to becoming a globe trotter:

1. The modern world is full of technologies that can allow you to work from almost any part of the world;

2. You don’t have to follow the path of work, work more, work even more, save lots of money, and then retire in order to begin “living”.

It can be hard to shed those classic models. After all, a huge majority of the modern world is raised to believe that going to school and college, training for a specific career, getting a “good job” that offers benefits and retirement options, and then socking away as much as possible for many years before actually ceasing to work is the “right way” to live.

Try to live outside of that, and you might find yourself being called a “slacker”, someone who won’t settle down or grow up, and much worse. It can be scary to see yourself through this sort of lens, but that’s when you have to consider the first of those two key things above.

The Technologies

Consider this quote from the British publication, The Telegraph:

“The world of work is becoming increasingly global in nature and many employees enjoy the prospect of experiencing different cultures and countries… International jobs include remote jobs that you can travel with, career choices with transferable skills, and jobs that require travel.”

So, you won’t have to leave the certain security of the corporate treadmill or the typical school-work-save-retire model and enter the vast wasteland of the globetrotting worker. There are multinational corporations, organizations, and entire industries in need of people who are willing and able to work in less structured format.

Additionally, most of these groups (as well as independent globetrotting workers) have access to an impressive array of modern technology that can make mobile work incredibly simple. The laptop or tablet with WiFi capabilities, the mobile phone with various SIM cards, the 24-hour IT department or professional within most firms, and the many platforms and networks that allow someone to work remotely without interruption or even concern about time zones, etc. can all make the true globe trotter’s life possible.

There are Challenges

Does that mean that it is a walk in the park? No. You do have to have a specific level of competency and job skills to make it realistic and effective. You don’t want to be in a foreign land without any employment options, connections, or means of generating livable income. Instead, you need to lay a strong foundation for your globetrotting and your day to day work. That means you have to be sure that you are great at organization and planning, problem solving, and capable of managing your day to day work life from any spot in the world.

Naturally, you have to be brave, sociable, have good “people skills”, and genuinely curious about the world around you too. However, we already know that you are because you are reading this article!

The key is to understand that there is a “down side” to being a globe trotter with a “portable” career. The downside can include language barriers or challenges, a loss of “belonging” when you are away from the familiar or your “home” territory for long stretches of time, challenges to maintaining personal relationships, and general fatigue if you are on the go too often.

If you are prepared for any of the challenges and difficulties that a globetrotting worker can face, you have already won more than half the battle. You can bust out of the old fashioned mold of school – career – save – retire and instead start to explore the world even as you earn your living.

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